Anonymous asked: I gained 20 pounds while dating my boyfriend. He's from the South and says it's no big deal. Now I am feeling suspicious, like maybe he's gay or cheating on me. Am I insane?

Being cool about a 20 lb., gain is a very straight-guy way to be. If anything, a more telling gay way to be would be bitchy.

This Tracie now. THat doesn’t make sense.